Advice please ASAP 🤧

Ive been talking to this guy for sometime now, we live in different cities due to different colleges. I go to his place every weekend Friday-sunday and things are amazing. (Him and i agreed we don’t want a relationship because we are both college athletes and focused on school as a priority. But we both have major feelings for each other and want each other) him and I have such a bond together that it makes me want to not go home. But when I go home and we’re texting and FaceTiming it’s not there? Like it’s not amazing it’s difficult? And in the beginning he said he wasn’t emotionally available which Idk what I expected of this situation. But today He told me “I care about you physically but not emotionally” and I don’t know what to say or do. Like i can’t just drop him because the chemistry is real and I want him in my life. It puts me at a hard position because I can’t talk about how I feel in my personal life or about him and I.

Any advice?