If one of your male friends surprised you by kissing you while you have a boyfriend what would do?

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So today I was hanging out with my guy friends and one of them kissed me by surprise. He knows I have a boyfriend and didn’t anyways, I didn’t enjoy it and it made me uncomfortable. Now I’m nervous though because I want to tell my boyfriend but I feel telling him will only help relieve how I feel but not him. What do you suggest I do?

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Honesty is always the best way to go. What happens if he finds out later?  He will be even more upset that you didn’t tell him. 
Also if it were me, I wouldn’t be hanging around that guy anymore.

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I have male friends the majority of them are males. I grew up with my male cousins & got use to having male friends as a grew up. It was a problem to some of my ex boyfriends. My husband knows every single one of them. My friends of yrs from h.s years are now became friends with my husband. 
But if one of them did that. Its gonna hurt because they are like my brothers. But would tell him.
So I suggest you talk to your boyfriend & let him know. By him finding out from someone else will make the situation worst. Be honest so he be able to trust you. You didn't do anything wrong your friend did. So there's nothing to be worried about. Communicate with your boyfriend & tell him.

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Obviously your relationship has now changed with this friend, you look at him differently, you don’t trust him, or you don’t feel comfortable being around him, I would tell your friend that was completely inappropriate and never to do that again, but the minute you tell your boyfriend, I’m sure he’s not gonna want you to be friends with this person anymore or your boyfriends gonna go after him and want to kick his ass. How did you react after he kissed you that’s the question. Because I’m sure your boyfriends gonna want to know if you pushed him away or what you did. How did you handle the situation, if you’re going to stay friends with this guy, serious boundaries were crossed. Honestly I would avoid the guy.

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tell him and probably stop talking to that friend since they can’t respect boundaries

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Definitely tell your boyfriend about it and try to avoid being alone with him in the future. Small things have a way of becoming big problems if not communicated.

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I’d cut him off. That’s just disrespectful and can ruin a relationship even if it wasn’t you. I’d hope my fiancé would understand that the advance was unwanted but tbh I’d have to talk to my therapist to see if I should tell him or not

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Slap him

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