43 and still a Virgin š„“
Iām 43 and still a Virgin. I decided to save myself till marriage and spent most of my younger years taking care of my mom and grandma until they passed (they were both sick). Iāve been longing for a relationship and to get married but I canāt find anyone. Literally nobody wanting a relationship comes my way. Not even on dating sites. And so I donāt want to seem desperate but at this point I am really feeling lonely and Iāve always wanted a family/kids. I donāt think it will ever happen for me. Iām only getting older and I donāt think I will be able to have kids at my age even if I do find a man. š„ŗš
Edit: I try putting myself out there and I am a very friendly person who can make conversation with anyone. I am opened to all ethnicities. I live in a small city thatās more like a country town. I work as a medical Office Assistant and there are only women where I work except for some of the doctors who are all married. I am a plus sized woman but Iām sort of tall so it doesnāt look bad on me. I take really good care of myself, Iām clean and have a good sense of fashion. Iām highly energetic, funny and somewhat of a nerd and I love social events and attend every one that I can. I have lots of friends. I just donāt understand what Iām doing wrong. Yes, there have been some men who approached me, few in person but most online BUT they made it clear to me that they only wanted to have sex and not be in a relationship. š„ŗ
UPDATE: For those asking, I didnāt focus on a man 20 or so years ago because after college, I moved straight back home because thatās when my mother got very sick so I looked after her for the rest of her years on earth and then shortly after my grandmother got sick so I devoted my time and focus on her. We all lived together. After she passed itās like I realized that I missed so much like life just passed me by. Maybe I should have been a little selfish and had more āme timeā. Also, in college there were a few guys, one I even dated but it didnāt go far because he always tried to pressure me into having sex and I wasnāt ready.
My friends helped me to create some dating profiles. One was Tinder, another was plenty of fish, I forgot the other ones but they ALL just went straight for the sex talk, ugh!! I think I might have to download a dating app that you have to pay for, maybe that will help narrow down to some serious guys? & yes I even thought about finding someone at my church and I even visit my friendās church often and the congregation is filled with elderly people. I donāt know where all the youth are. š
Let's Glow!
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.