Need advise/ Tips maybe?

Sooo little background I just had my second baby (I’m like 3 months PP).

I don’t feel sexy or attractive for that matter I look so different from before I had any babies (I now weigh 140 wear medium/ large or baggy clothes and I’m 4’11” and all my weight is in my tummy...Picture petite and pregnant but I’m not pregnant 😑😩)

I know I haven’t put as much energy in bed, I’m just not feeling as into it as my bf is and I know he has needs (he isn’t pushy he just hints at things). I wanna make him happy but it’s just hard for me, he says my body isn’t a issue for him and he still thinks I’m sexy but it’s hard for me to see/feel

Any advise to feel sexy or tips for adding some type of spice????

SN: I take a kinda sexy Heels dance class occasionally but I’m not as good as before pregnancy ☹️