This Momma needs a hug 😩

My little one is 7 months old. They just cut their THIRD tooth in a month. They’re working on their FOURTH tooth. DH decided a month ago that he wasn’t going to help with naps or bedtime because he couldn’t help bring LO comfort like I could. But he only ever did bedtime maybe one night a week anyways. I’m so anxious all the time now. Last night they were screaming for two hours. I finally had to put them in their crib and just sit by it. Then when they got really bad I comforted them and they fell asleep with a bottle.

They’re cutting teeth, trying to crawl AND they never stop moving. They’re the most active baby I’ve ever met in my entire life of being around babies.

DH says if I need help to just ask. I don’t understand why one parent had to “ask” for help? He says I’m the nurturer so she only wants me so he can’t help her like I can.

I wish someone else could do it for a few minutes. I feel terrible my child is making me anxious and stressed. I should have more control and patience. DH is constantly telling me “what can you do 🤷🏻‍♀️” when I talk about it and it’s stressing me out.

To add: the help I need is with bed times and naps and my DH decided he’s not doing those. So I can’t ask for help with it. Rock and a hard place.