Would you file for divorce ?
I am unhappy , lost , and depressed. Please be kind as I am crying while writing this. I’ve suffered with depression for several years before meeting my husband no fault of his own and I’m on medication and working on my issues in therapy . In one year , we got married and had my daughter she is now 4 months. Well at night we take shifts he sleeps one night I slee another so that we both watch her and in turn get rest. Well it’s been three nights in a row I’ve watched her while he sleeps. He got up this morning and I said I’m exhausted please feed her. He said well it’s not like you didn’t sleep I came in here a 2am and you guys were asleep.
. I said that’s not the point you aren’t doing enough and I’m exhausted. I feel like I pull the majority of the weight in the relationship. I didn’t have my dad in my life and my husband knows this. Every time we get into he brings that up and says I’m trying to break us up and do to my daughter what my dad did to me . Which is BS!! He can still be a dad whether we are together or not , during the course of the argument he goes on to tell me how I think I am more that what I am ! I am so angry and tired of not getting support or help I need. I feel so belittled by everyone and if it wasn’t for my daughter I don’t know where I would be. This man doesn’t help me enough I am constantly buying diapers, I am the one with her at night and for him to talk down to me literally breaks my spirit . I don’t know what to do.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.