Y’all!!!!

Y’all at what age does a man start getting to a point where it takes longer for his little shoulder to stand at attention? Normally it took no time now since my husband turned 30 and started a new job about three weeks ago he’s claiming that he’s getting older and that’s why it’s not getting up fast...idk I’m a little suspicious I feel like he either getting it up for someone else or he isn’t attracted to me anymore to be completely honest I’m afraid of it being any of those reasons but I’m sure it’s not because he’s getting old 30?? Come on now