I’m not attractive to him anymore

So the last few nights I’ve been trying to seduce my fiancé. At first I thought he wasn’t in the mood. Okay. Fine.

Then last night I tried again and got understandably a little upset. Obviously it’s his body and if he’s not in the mood then that’s okay. But it’s also okay for me to be upset about being rejected.

I spoke to him about it and he said he’s tired and stressed. He said that I needed to communicate better when I was in the mood and give him time to relax into it and get in the mood too.

But the thing is, I did! I stripped off for him before bed. He was busy, I thought he’d join me later. Then a bit later I went and sat by him at the computer and showed him my body. He got me to sit on his lap and we talked about what he was doing and chatted. I gave up and that’s when he told me he needed more time.

We didn’t make love last night.

This morning I went out while he was still in bed to get some things from the shops. He was awake but didn’t want to get out of bed just yet so he wanted me to go. When I came back I went to the bedroom to charge my phone and he’d left the nightstand drawer open. The only thing in there is sex toys and tissues. So I know what he’s done.

I spoke to him about it and he didn’t reply for a while. Eventually he sort of admitted that since we didn’t have sex last night, he was in the mood this morning.

He keeps telling me that he’s just tired and stressed and that he’s still attracted to me. But I can’t convince myself of it when he wanks in the morning when I’m not there after I fail to seduce him at night.

He’s not cheating on me. I know that much. But I just don’t know what to do. We have a baby together so we’re not going to leave each other.