Does it mean I’m unattractive if I’m 25 and still a virgin (not out of choice)?

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I turned 25 and was invited for my cervical smear. It upset me cause the lady asked me all these questions if I bleed after sex etc. I said no cause I’ve never had sex and it’s really upsetting me now
I’ve been trying to put myself out there for years but I never get asked on dates, rejected constantly, ghosted on dating apps. I’ve focused so much on my career in which I just lost my job too so I’m like what’s the point. I’m lonely and rarely meet anyone, no one makes an effort with me and I have to make all the effort to make friends and then I never hear from people again
I just want to meet someone and have amazing sex and a nice relationship and I can’t even have that :( I’m embarrassed I’ve never had sex before my first smear
Life’s so short and I was looking forward to a fun sex life in my 20s
Guys stare at me and I’m told I’m pretty but I don’t get it. Noones ever made any effort with me whatsoever

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Your exam is to make sure your cervix is healthy so it is important they ask about sex just in case something popped up on the results. Nothing to be embarrassed about. 
Being a virgin doesn’t have anything to do with how attractive you are. You don’t need to have sex with some random guy to feel attractive. 
You just haven’t found the right person. 
Plus there’s nothing special about not being a virgin anymore. It’s just you having consensual safe sex.

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it’s totally fine to be 25 and a virgin

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You just need to find someone you vibe with. Now days it seems all a majority of anyone wants is just sex and you are specific on what you want so guys avoid it. Take it as a blessing. Meaningless sex sucks!

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Please don’t be embarrassed. They just ask that because depending on answer can I form them of possible things going on down their. Like when I said it hurt all the time down their when having sex. They had to check to see if I had endometriosis.  Etc that’s why they ask plus it’s all about the cells of your cervix anyways so nothing to be ashamed about.  
Personally I wish I waited a bit longer. I felt like all people ever saw me as was a hook up and not a true relationship.  It took a while but I eventually found my person.  Honestly the randoms/ not true In love with sex was never as good as sex with my now fiancée. It’s such a better experience with someone who knows your body and love you. 
Your feelings are 100% valid and just know their is others out their who have not had sex. And wether you do or don’t at whatever age is 100% okay. As long as it is safe and consensual

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I was a virgin until I was 30; it’s ok

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Meant to hit no but accidentally hit yes

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There's absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about, I was in the exact same position you're in now. 
Then I found a wonderful person, who understands me and made me feel special and loved and desired. We've been together now for 2 years. 
I was 28 when I lost my virginity. There's absolutely no rush. It always made me mad when people pulled a face when they found out I was still a virgin. Society puts a huge lable on the whole thing, when to loose it, how, and to who...as if there's some sort of instruction manual ??! 😡
I was proud to be a virgin, it doesn't make you a different person, less of an adult or whatever else people think. 
Don't worry, you'll find your special someone. There's one out there for all of us. 
In the meantime, hold your head high, you're a proud, independent and beautiful woman. 🥰

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Girl, that’s special. Save it for someone special. It’s hard meeting people these days. Sex should be special.

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Please dont be embarassed. I did the same thing and ended up losing it to a loser. It make u a bit more special and unique in a world ful of lust. Just read books and eatch videos and educate yourself on what a healthy relationship looks like... that way you make wise chocies and lose it to the right person. You can get books cheap from thrift stores. In this world any women can get a man to hve sex.... but not every women has the skill, discernment, wisdom to recognize and choose a healthy partner so focus on that.

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I wish I waited to have sex. Find someone that cares about you. Everyone as different taste, like you aren’t attracted to every single person you see the same goes for you too ! The most important thing is to love yourself and be kind to others. Confidence is very attractive !

Does it mean I’m unattractive if I’m 25 and still a virgin (not out of choice)?

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