Resentment towards husband

Ive felt this way for awhile now. It just seems like im the only one who cares about our daughters naps, bedtime routine, feeding (milk & solids), play time etc. Im always the one researching on foods or what to do. I do most of the feedings (milk and solids) Sometimes i dont even get to shower for a whole week. As a first time mom this is so frustrating and honestly steering me away from wanting to have another. Can anyone relate? What has helped you get past this? Ive tried talking to my husband and it just leads to arguments like i did this or that blah blah. I guess i feel very unappreciated.