How do you handle being the only one to check up on friends and family but no one does the same for you?

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I’ve recently deleted all social media and everything and stopped reaching out to my family and friends. Know what? None have them have noticed or even tried to reach out to me. So I’m gonna just forget it?  Move on? What would you do?

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I stopped giving a shit , Stopped expecting People to “care” ever since I lowered my expectations im much happier cause the trash took itself out

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I wouldn’t worry about anyone who doesn’t worry about me.
I have no social media besides this app.
If someone wants to get a hold of me they have my number.

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Just don't check on them. If they aren't there for you in the real world, outside of social media, they never were there at all. If you find yourself alone and without a soul to keep you company, it's a sign that you need to look inside yourself and be your own company. Start meditating and doing yoga, start running. Do things that you can do alone and that will benefit you and you alone. Just focus on self love. The more you love yourself, the more you will attract people who love you truly. That's exactly what I did over 10 years ago, damn can't believe it's really been that long, and I don't regret it even a tiny bit. Now I only have like 2 friends and I know they are there for me 1000% which is better than 1000 friends who are there for me 1%.

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I feel this in my bones! I am and have been going through this the past couple years. There are 3 friends that I keep checking on but yet they never check up on me. If we ever do hang out which is literally never they always say “haven’t talk to you in awhile” no shit, you never reach out! I have always reached out at least two times a month! But 2/3 go on random get aways and go each other’s houses once every two weeks. It’s just not worth putting myself out their anymore. When I don’t I get told behind my back that I just quit talking to them and they wonder why, I hate it

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I also deleted all my social media besides snap and these pregnancy apps when I moved out across the country with my husband. Most people have my number and it sucks who you thought you were close with, you not actually that close anymore 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ I sometimes hate it and get sad but it’s been almost 8 months since living here. I think the only reason I’m upset is cause I haven’t made any real friends out here. I only have my husband and his small family and our children. I’m still young 28 and I miss social life sometimes. I work from home and go to school from home so me meeting people is highly unlikely. Ahh but I’m also pregnant so I guess I’ll have a Jew friend to care for 😭🤱

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I know exactly  how you feel! I am a person that usually like to connect with people and feel bad when they don’t connect back with me. I say find new people in your lives that WANT to be in your life and ignore the ones who don’t care. When they ask hey we haven’t heard from you or something say, “oh it’s I don’t hear from you often so thought you were always busy.”

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Stop checking in…

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I have no family except one aunt that cares. All the rest don’t even remember me.

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How long has it been? It took me a long time to realize I wasn't seeing my cousin's post on fb and I was like "wth happened to her?" Only to find out she had to make a new account and had actually sent me a request and I just didn't notice until literally months later.

How do you handle being the only one to check up on friends and family but no one does the same for you?

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