Not trying but not preventing

Long story short hubby and I feel it’s time for baby #2. Which is exciting and scary all at once right? 😅 However I have about 20 lbs I’d like to lose before then. So we aren’t “trying” but we aren’t necessarily preventing either. Just curious if there is anyone else out there in the same boat. I am so excited for baby number 2 but really want to be back at 195 (I’m 5’10”) which is what I was at when we fell pregnant with our first.