Feeling a little intimidated

So I am doing play dates and stuff with other moms that I meet.

And not gonna lie, with some of the moms I feel a little intimidated by their lifestyle. Like we live in a modest home, partly cause we didn't want a hit mortgage payment. Other part is we are pretty risk averse and don't want to be on the hook for a huge monthly payment of one of us lost our job.

But idk, I feel like maybe these moms who live in nicer homes and neighborhoods might eventually not want to have more playdates since we aren't on their same level.

If you live in a really nice home and a really nice neighborhood. Do you avoid meeting or spending time with people who don't live in as nice of a place as you?