Ttc journey!! Is it ok to be selfish?

Ttc journey long or short is filled with many ups and downs!! To live your personal and also professional life normally could be challenging when there is a turmoil of things going on inside you and also could take up your mind space!! Ppl you work with or live with and hang out with may not always be understanding of what you are going through! Your best bet is to talk to them and make them aware of your situation and just hope that they realize what you feel like!! I recently had one such experience at work, i wanted someone to know that my ttc journey has not been easy and part of it could be work stress! It was sort of disheartening to see that they couldnt care much about it or were not even understanding of it. Has anyone gone through this before? Is it ok to be selfish and think for yourself first?