Would you pay for a vacation when boyfriend won’t even take you on a date??

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have a 2 year old daughter together. During our 3 years the only time he took me out on a date is my birthday and our anniversary which 2 of our anniversary’s I paid for. When he did take me out on a date he would bitch about how much money he spent on me. Anyway long story short he was paying cam women our entire relationship and was on dating apps putting he’s single. Found all this out 3 months ago. I’ve tired to move on and forgive him but I can’t. I told him in order for me to start falling back in love with him he’ll have to take me out on dates. It’s been 3 months still no date. I just started a job a month ago and have taken our family out 4 times. I’ve paid for it. Anyway I really wanted to get away for Christmas time. I booked a Airbnb cabin for 3 nights paid 730. All I asked was for him to get a credit card so that we could rent a truck or suv. Cause it’ll be snowing and the Airbnb people said you need a all wheel drive car or 4x4. Since we don’t have one. I asked if he can rent one since my credit is shit. He won’t save money nor look into getting a credit card. I told him I’m canceling the trip cause he wants a free vacation out of me. I’m tired of paying for him. When he can’t even take me to a cheap date.