Unsolicited advice/opinions

Curious what is unsolicited advice/opinions you've gotten from family, friends, strangers, etc. I'll go first...

I had my son last year, I'm 14 months PP and we are still unsure if we plan to have 1 more. I turned 30 this year and if we do decide we will start trying at the beginning of next year. My mom on the phone tells me how much I need to hurry up and decide bcuz I'm 30 and don't have much longer. 🙄 Tf? I had a traumatic birth/recovery so it hits extra hard.

Anytime I have to do anything without my husband, my parents worry. Like if I have to drive him to the dr, or before when we'd go to visit them just me and the baby, they'd be SO concerned because my husband wasn't going to be with us on the road. As if I can't handle myself as a grown woman. Or sometimes he works at night and they just groan when they ask and I tell them he's working. Like somehow him being here makes us instantly safer? They didn't care when it was just me, before we ever had a baby. Guess it's just annoying as a grown ass woman who can handle herself and the safety of her and her child.

I'll be reading these when my husband and baby go to bed tonight and I can't sleep cuz #anxiety 😅