“Bf” says Im crazy and anoying for claiming he’s abusing me

Im convinced this is abuse but my bf says it is not and I’m crazy for accusing him for that.

So he calls me bitch because i called him “dude”

I was mad and said “dude stop” and he called me “bitch lying sack of shit”

He ignores me for 5 days until “I calm down” because he doesn’t want to argue. So let me ask this: isn’t that abuse?

Blocks me then comes back saying “I hope you stopped acting dumb now” no sorry no nothing. He accused me of flirting with my own fucking cousin. My cousin shared a picture of his daughter in a cheerleader outfit and I put “🥰” my cousin replied saying “☺️ 😚 “ he got mad my cousin put a kiss emoji. That’s when he said “stop lying sack of shit” and I said “dude stop”

I went to the bar with my friends cause I was stressed out with my own bf. He didn’t like the outfit that I wore. Blocked me again for 8 days. Lol.

I told him he is abusing me and he said “wtf stupid ass bitch that’s like accusing someone of rape when it’s not true. Watch what you accuse me of cause it Can go a long way. It’s called I need space not abuse. Do I hit you? Nope. You’re fucking annoying and falsely a cussing me.”