Too soon?

I started talking to someone from tinder I usually don’t send a message first but he was very attractive and I wasn’t expecting a response. Anyway we talked for a bit and we started talking sexually while also getting to know each other. I know this may seem backwards but is it bad I want to get to know him more and make him wait before we have sex? I genuinely go on tinder to try to meet people not have sex and he’s so attractive I don’t think I wanna hop onto that yet. I wanna set boundaries for myself I should have did that before we started talking sexually but I feel it’s only right I put up that barrier. Maybe we can go on dates or call each other a couple of times I haven’t really been in the mood to go out on dates. But I think it’s only right that I lay down these rules before I allow him to do anything with me. I’ve had a couple one night stands which I’m not proud of. I genuinely want to date someone where I set my boundaries up and it’s understood before he has sex with me. I’ve gotten tired of the talking stages but I feel it’s imperative that although I like to do these things that he has to truly earn me. And I love when we talk about sex and everything ya girl hasn’t had sex in forever but I want to be respected and not a one time thing.