My ex and I dated for 4 years. We are both 21 and broke up because things were getting extremely toxic. I come to find out he is now dating a girl who just turned 17! I know a 4 year age gap isn’t a lot but in this case, she is still a minor! Do you guys think that’s okay? I certainly don’t think it’s okay but maybe I’m biased. Of course it hurts seeing him do this after spending 4 years with him, but I think this is a pedophile move. Why do you guys think he’s going after a minor? Have any of you been in a similar situation?