Saying I love you?

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Ok ladies! Serious question.
How would y'all take someone saying " I love you" after one month of talking. Im 24, This man is 32 (if that info matters)

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It depends on the relationship. I’ve known people take it slow and it doesn’t work out. I’ve known people that got married after two months of knowing each other and still together and happy today. I don’t think time defines love, it’s the people and their dynamic as a couple that defines loves.

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Well to me I would think love bombing, anything that happens fast, tends to end fast, they come on too strong and sometimes it comes off as desperate and clingy and needy, I would say thank you, but I’m not there yet. My current partner it took me 11 months to catch feelings for him, the partner before him, it took me four months, every relationship is different, depending where you are in life, if I’m still getting over someone else, it obviously takes me longer, sometimes were in a phase where you just want some thing that’s casual, sometimes you’re looking for a long-term relationship, sometimes you’re lonely desperate and clingy and needy and it’s a turn off because they come on too strong, I wants had a guy that I met at a casino one night, you seem like a nice guy we swap numbers, I told him I had a 30 minute drive home and I would contact him when I got home, as I’m driving home my purse keeps lighting up every two minutes I’m like what is going on, I get home, and there is over 30 messages, in 30 minutes, where are you, why aren’t you answering me, hello, are you there, yeah needless to say it only lasted three days with him, I ended up having to block him, after conversation after conversation, nope. I’m at a point in my life where I’m 43, I stop tolerating bullshit, my happiness is more important than being with someone, I would rather be alone than waste my time. I know what I want and what I don’t want. Not sure where you are in life, but after one month, I would be thinking no way too soon. And remember that actions speak louder than words, sometimes guy say things like that and hopes to fuck you and suck you in emotionally, and then they flip the script and do the minimal and you end up chasing after them trying to keep the relationship going. They tell you what you wanna hear, just take it one day at a time, play it cool, and just say look I’m not there yet but I appreciate it thank you. Way too soon for me I’m sorry but you got it back it up for me.￼￼￼

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That would be a serious red flag to me. You’re just talking, haven’t even been on a date yet, and he already loves you? I call bs.

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U feel it.. say it with confidence.. 🤍

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Some people move faster than others, my relationship took about 2/3 months for us to say it. It could be apart of the honeymoon phase but he may actually be in love with you.

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My man and I said it within a week and meant it 100%! He's 12 and a half years older

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