Am I wrong?

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My husband likes to try to have sex LITERALLY in the middle of the night. Like I’m talking about literally 2am-4am when I’m DEAD sleep. He will start kissing on me and trying to play with me and I ALWAYS shoot him down because I BE SLEEP SLEEP. I love my sleep lol we have 4 kids and I work 9 hours a day. He is a stay at home dad so he can sit around all day because our older kids are in school and my 3 year old “watches” our 1 year old 🤦🏽‍♀️ he literally sits in the room all day and watch tv while I work. When I get off work I have to get the kids check homework, bath the 2 younger kids most days, feed the baby etc. SooooooWhen it’s bed time I be exhausted. I feel so bad but it’s like come on now. Then the next morning he be mad as hell. 🤦🏽‍♀️😔

Accepted Answer

I'm not sure how you got to four kids with a man that's a sahd but who doesn't do shit with the kids all day long so you still have to do it after work.
But to answer the question, no you're never wrong to say no to sex if you're not in the mood.

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He’s not a stay at home dad.
He’s a lazy bum mooching off of you. The middle of the night sex is literally the least of your problems

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You’re not wrong , but he is wrong for not helping you enough with the kids

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You are insane. You’re the man in this relationship. Sorry but I wouldn’t be doing all that. He’s not a man at all.

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You gotta express to him that he should be doing all that shit as a stay at home dad. Not just watch tv all day while you’re busting your ass to provide and now take care of the kids too. Like that’s stressful asf. I’m a stay at home mom and I take care of my kids from the moment they wake up till the moment they fall asleep. My husband works long hours and I definitely struggle at times but I try to not ask for help because I feel really bad. I know he doesn’t mind helping but still. Your husband should be like this or at least try to take care of the kids. He needs to be more responsible and stop being so dam lazy.

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please don't insult stay home parents by calling him one

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I get where you’re coming from. If you’re tired and not in the mood then that’s that. He’s just gonna have to understand. Maybe have a talk with him and see if that helps. You’re also overworked mama, I don’t know the full situation but I hope it gets better for you so it’s not too much on your plate 🙏🏾💜

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I mean if that’s all he does staying home with two kids then he needs to get a job and make some money 🤷🏻‍♀️ I only work 2 days a week and stay home the rest of the time and I clean, I cook, I take care of our son, take care of our animals, do the grocery shopping, and run all of our errands. If he ain’t working - all of that should be on him. 
And you can turn down sex whenever you want 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Only you know the value your man holds and what he does for you so dont let these people outside your relationship make you see him as "not a man" or a moocher. 
With that said, just talk to him so you can be on the same page and have a healthy sex life.

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