Hmmmm

Would you stay with your spouse of a few years if they weren't satisfying you sexually?

Like we've talked about this before so it's nothin new. I am a very sexual / "freaky" fun type of sex girl and he simply is not that in the bedroom. I was use to it frequently then when we got together it went down to rarely. We were long distance the first couple years so it was expected but the times I would see him he wouldn't even try so we would go 5 6 7 months nothin..& got into a few arguments about that. Now that we got kids it's even harder to get time in and he never takes advantage of any time we get or if hes on vacay from work.

We've / I'VE tried to incorporate sex toys to spice things up and to bring out a more fun freak side of him. I think he got offended of one of the toys once cause it was some type of thing that goes on the man to make him "bigger" so he went to a "oh so I'm not enough for you" type of mood. He is the smallest I've been with but I'd never tell him that.

Idk what else to try or say to him. It's been a LIL better/more but he likes a same ol same ol type.of person...like rarely switches it up or tries things until it cause another issue. Like if I'm telling you what I like...do it. I don't get it and tired of repeating myself. I do what he likes so it should be returned.

Ok let me shut up now..maybe I'm the problem? Expecting too much? idk. Sex is a big part of a healthy relationship and I feel like I've compromised to sexual appetite enough since he is great in every other aspect I would say. Let me know...my feelings won't be hurt lol