Did my bf just violate me?

Im sooo confused and can’t believe he fooled me.

I know pull out method isn’t 100% reliable and that’s why I feel like it was my fault too because I could have said no. Even if he would have pulled out I knew there was a risk of pregnancy.

I am doing natural family planning as my BC. Pretty much, track my fertility through CM and bbt temps. It’s been effective for 2 years now.

I’m on cycle day 15 which is the day after ovulation. I had egg white CM yesterday so I thought I would stick to condoms today until confirmed 3 bbt temps to be on the safe side. I’ve been doing that for 2 years.

So today I told my bf, I’m not on the safe side right now. I told him to get the condom. He said he would pull out so I said ok. I agreed to have sex!!!

Here’s the part I’m mad about. After intercourse, he pulled out and I just saw him put his hand over his penis. He went to the restroom and I thought it was to wash his hands because that’s where he collected the cum. I asked if he pulled out. He told me “yeah babe I pulled out”

We don’t live together and we had sex at his apartment….3 hours later when I was home I texted him “did you pull out?” I asked this because I noticed when I wiped after pee I had more stretchy Discharge. It looked like cum. He said “yes babe stop getting paranoid”

Just right now he told me “I lied about pulling out hehehe”

Keep in mind we are 27 and this is sooo annoying. I told him “wow, I’m going to get plan b. I think you also need to give me half of the plan b cost”

He replied with this “you know pull out is not entirely effective I didn’t force you. You agreed to the risks so nope…just let it be babe. A baby is a blessing”

I feel Betrayed