Marriage opinion

So recently I’ve been taking my Instagram seriously and trying to make it into a work thing. I personally feel I’m on it most of the time why not monetize on it. My niche is motherhood and lifestyle content. My goal is too someday work with different brands. I’m a SAHM so this helps me have something to do outside of the same routine moms deal with. Trying to make this short but I was a doing a reel that had a curse word to which my husband responded “ be careful what you put on the internet because one day our kids may see it and will see you cursing” to which my response was “ well I’m not doing anything vulgar and or explicit” If for whatever reason they see me “ cursing” I can assure you they probably will hear it coming out of your mouth before they see a reel or tik tok. We got into a huge argument because he couldn’t see my point. He gaslight the situation by saying nobody can say anything to me without me getting upset. All I said is I’m just disagreeing with what your saying and I have to do that. Do you think I’m overreacting or he’s overreacting