Big Question! please just inputs

So Me and My Fiance have been together for 2 years we live together.

Has anyones Sex life/Drive went down since living together? My Fiance and i rarely have sex anymore.. like theres 30-31 days in the months and if i’m lucky we will have sex 3-4 times each month.. and its not even everyday its every 1 week passes or a couple days to have sex again… He doesn’t watch porn because i just personally don’t like it.

but i feel like him not watching porn has made him not have much of a sex drive.. idk thats just me. like i feel weird that he never wants to Ever do anything but his dick will get hard from me. but he never wants to do anything . Not to mention we want a family he always talks about it but we rarely have sex

Yes he works and i work to. but he works 6-2 and he just hops right on the games Every time so he’s not tired. He stays on the video games til 2-11 or 12 pm before hes tired an wants to go to bed.

he tells me that he isn’t focused around sex but gets upset and tells me if all i’m worried about is sex tell him that. but i’m not i just hate that we rarely have sex.. like to me its not normal we are both 23 years old.

has anyone been through this..