Dildos -UPDATED

Last week my husband told me he got drunk and went shopping on Adam&eve.com. (I didn’t even know what that was) then he busted out this bag of dildos and told me, “maybe we can mix things up a bit”. So, I agree, we do our same old thing (been married for 10 years) and maybe dildos are the answer, but I honestly don’t know what to do with them. Like, I’d rather just have his big D instead! The bag came with a strap - which again - I was like, wtf is this? Then I realized it was for me to put on and now I’m thinking, does he want me to pretend to have a penis? What do I do with myself? He has been into more butt stuff lately and I think he wants to explore that more, but I’m not sure. I just don’t know what to do with toys in bed. What do couples do with multiple dildos? …and a tiny palm vibrator? - do guys like vibrators on their balls?

Update: Last night we were hanging out and started talking about the dildos and toys again (btw, apparently adam&eve.com will just keep send you free stuff after purchase. “If you loved dildos, then try this…”) He told me that he also like to be the submissive one sometimes and I was like, ok I can handle that. So I used the harness and we both had a great time! Those of you who said to talk about it were right - it’s really all about the communication! 💕