Thoughts on being a virgin?

It’s been so long that I’ve actually said anything on here. But okay… I wrote about virginity a VERY long time ago but im still curious. I turned 30 in 2021 and I’m still a virgin. Im not waiting for marriage just waiting for the right guy. Obviously in the past three yrs with Covid it’s been hard to meet people and I actually have been more open to dating. I don’t want to have a one night stand, I want it to be special because it will hurt and I want to feel comfortable with him.

I’m genuinely curious. If you have friends that are still virgins and over 25 or you yourself are one, do you feel ashamed about it?? I sometimes do because society makes it that way but most times I’m content and other times I wish I was open and confident. I do have other reasons why I’ve been a virgin but briefly sharing this bit because I sometimes feel so alone in the position that I am.