What would you say to the woman who your husband possibly cheated with?

So I’ve had a suspicion for quite a while that my husband has cheated on me before. I recently checked his phone call log from AT&T because he blocked me one night for no reason while he was out of town. He was MIA from 6pm-4am (not a big deal based on time alone, I know). However, the phone records show that he was making multiple calls that entire time frame, all the numbers that I don’t recognize. I downloaded an app for reverse phone lookup, and sure enough the numbers belong to two women. I looked them both up on Facebook, but one of them is an old woman (60’s, and my husband is 28), and the other one I can’t find a match for her name. I assume the first one is a woman who shares he phone plan with someone else (mom/grandma maybe).

Anyways, I would like to call both numbers and talk to these woman, and just see what they say. I don’t know what I should say though. I do not want to go into the call defensive and threatening, because I want answers from these women. I need someone to give me some advice on what you would say (like word for word) so as not to sound like I’m mad at them or something. I was thinking something along the lines of “hello, this is June. You don’t know me, but I was wondering if you had a minute to talk.” If they say yes, then “is this Georgia?” (That’s the name from the phone trace app). And then hopefully they will tell me their name if that’s not it. And then I would say “let me preface this call by saying that I’m not accusing you of anything, I 100% blame my husband if anything happened. I’m calling to talk to you because I found your number on my husbands call logs in the middle of the night. His name is Sam, and he was probably with his brother Mitch when you met him. I have thought he was cheating on me for a while, but I’ve never had solid proof until now. Would you be willing to talk to me about this? Again, I have no hard feelings towards you, I know for a fact that my husband wasn’t wearing his wedding ring the night he called you because he took pictures on his phone at the club without it on his finger.” And the. Hopefully from there, she will just open up and tell me if they did sleep together, or whatever.

What do y’all think??