How to give a good blowjob?

Question

hi girls, my boyfriend always wants me to suck him off. i give it as good as i can but never feel like it’s enough for him and i just give up. does anyone have any tips on how to give a good blowjob?🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

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These forums really have me in a good mood because as women we all open up. I’m seeing someone new and goodness before We even had our first date I felt so much chemistry. I was celibate for over a year at this point and I explained my need for sex since I intuitively know he is the man for me right now in my life. I made it very clear that I don’t regret stopping my celibate journey in order to enjoy 😊 time with him. The more I get to know him the more intense our sex gets . The kisses the energy the skin to skin. His voice puts me in a trance and he’s just everything right now I’m looking for . So you know after spending time with someone you get to know them their behavior likes and dislike and you can take that into the bedroom. Be sensual at first until you can nut up and be his slut on the real. But, I believe asking him is ideal but look at him and enjoy it slowly at first and know pleasing him isn’t a chore ! Just know pleasing him at your best ability and communication allows him to return the favor is you must. 
How to give a good blow job:
(Not a order just some things to try)
Ask him 
Fore play (rubbing him, texts during the day, whisper in his ear etc) 
Start with small touches on his you know penis 
Breathing on it licking - sucking - plunging him. 
Lick his balls 
Little sounds in moderation 
Get creative out his penis between you boobs
If you have edible lube really saturate but not overly a little goes a long way
Bite & kiss around his pelvic area softly 
Two hands girl while just sucking the tip. 
You got this hahaha

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Best tip i can give communication. Seriously be open and honest with your partner. Tell him exactly what your telling us. Tell him you want to get better and literally just ask him what he likes. Different men like different things so honestly we can't give much advice. Some guys like there balls being played with some guys literally Hate It. It all depends on your partner and what they like. I hope this helps. I know it can be a little awkward conversation but it does help. 
I had that talk with my fiance bc I just wasn't sure if I also could be doing anything better. We sat down and had talked about it. And now both of us have alot of fun. Good luck!

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When it comes to blow jobs, it’s all about the build up, keeping the momentum, and letting him enjoy it, if you enjoy yourself, even better. I Deep Throat,I do suction, I do contact with his eyes, and look at slowly from the base to the tip while moaning, I flick the tip quickly like a lizard, I circle my tongue around the crown, when I lick from the base to the tip I also include the testicles, and once you start that build up and momentum, you can’t stop, it’s like a train going up the tracks, if you stop it rolls back to the train station. I let him climax and keep going, I lift up, swallow, and keep going and let him enjoy the ride down, until his heart rate and breathing returns to normal. I know he enjoys it, thoroughly, his legs are usually like Bambi shaking and he can’t hold himself up, and that’s my hi5 basically but I literally can leave him like that. He says I suck the soul out of him and is amazing￼. There is nothing he loves more than a good blow job, sex is great, don’t get me wrong, but with us it’s that intense passionate minute you walk through the door pressed up against the wall, making out, my hands raised above my head and he’s holding them with one hand and he’s just going to town all over me grabbing me everywhere, it is the most intense and passionate relationship I’ve ever been in. A year and eight months and it’s still like day one. We both have very high sex drives, he is my sexual match, he taps out at five rounds, I could honestly go all night. No one has ever been able to keep up with me except him. But like I said the more you enjoy it, the more he will enjoy it. A little moaning, he knows it’s a turn on for me to please him, he says I let out this breathy sigh of air on his penis. ￼ He says it’s a total turn on that I am enjoying myself. He knows the minute I get wet. I love that he pays attention to everything. He knows from a text message if something is off, he knows and notices everything he knows me better than I know myself. He knows when I need to rant, he knows when to give advice, he knows just to let me rant and when I’m done, we talk. He has amazing communication skills, any issues arise, they get it resolved immediately, no screaming and yelling, it’s like no relationship I’ve ever been in before. The most levelheaded person, we have the whole power dynamic, he is my fantasy, and I am his. I have daddy issues, he’s 59, and 43, he’s a powerful man with a powerful job, who wears a suit every day, he’s a lawyer, I realized I had daddy issues when I was watching dirty dancing and was more attracted to babies father than the scenario with baby and Johnny. We have that whole daddy daughter vibe, it is the most intense relationship. Wait for that. I had to wait 43 years, nothing but crap after crap, one worse than the other.￼￼

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No one here can tell you how to give the best oral to your man...simply becuase none of us knows what he likes. Some guys like the standard "up and down, bobbing and rolling" others really get their bread buttered when you cover them in cake frosting, animal crackers and make a little zoo out of their crotches. Point is, the best person to ask is him. Engage him as you do it. Pay attention to the non verbal cues. Do more of what is responded to and less of what there is no response to. 
Communication is key and you just need to get to that point where you know each others bodies. Good luck!

How to give a good blowjob?

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