Moms of boys

I have a couple of questions. I specifically call for moms of boys, because I've heard boys are more lazier and not develop as quickly as girls.

My son is 14 months old. He's a smiley baby, he babbles, makes sounds, however he doesn't say mama/papa/give or anything like that. More than that, he doesn't point(which I rarely point myself), he doesn't wave. But the cherry on the top for my mental breakdown was the fact that he's DISGUSTED by food. Like even bananas that he loves, he won't touch. I don't understand why...

As for share play or engaging together, he's greedy. He doesn't like it. He starts to whine. Of course, when you google, you get to ADS.

I've talked to numerous neurologists, pediatricians and all of them told me, he's fine. Everybody has their own pace, don't compare! So, I'm asking, what do your children know/knew at this age? Thank you!