If your boyfriend never talked about the future, or never said he loves you or no emotional conversation, would you lose sexual and physical attraction?

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My boyfriend never says or does anything romantic. He’s never said he loves me and he never talks about me being in his future. We’ve been together for 8 months.
All of sudden I just don’t feel the sexual attraction to him and I’m worried that there’s something wrong with Me

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Why are you worried that something is wrong with you? It sounds like you have standards, and this is actually a very normal experience. 
Not feeling loved or valued is not very sexy ultimately.

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Never talks about the future, never even says he loves you or emotional conversation?.. Girl, this looks like a friends with benefits situation. You do have standards, it's time to work on them if u feel u deserve better

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The fact he says he's annoyed when you're around is not good. I'd reconsider the relationship cause it sounds like he doesn't care about you. You deserve someone who does

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I think you’d feel more sexual towards him if he was treating you better and making you feel more loved and secure. 
You’re only 8 months in and things are already bad. Just leave! Go find someone who treats you right and watch your sex life improve dramatically as well as your love life!

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Have you bought this up to him?

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I meant to put yes 😩

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What does he say when you bring this up to him? For me that would be concerning since the sole reason I date is to have a future with someone

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@diane I read some of your comments as well and I think you are over thinking. I’ve gone through this before and It’s perfectly normal to loose romantic feelings/ not get turned on when you are feeling unsure about a relationship or he isn’t making you feel loved. Men and women’s libido is very different. Our emotions are more involved in our ability to get turned on or even orgasm. It’s completely normal that you would lose attraction to not just him but everyone else too. The feelings will likely come back when your emotional needs are being met. 
Also sometimes you just stop being turned on for a little bit. - no one has a high sex drive all the time.

If your boyfriend never talked about the future, or never said he loves you or no emotional conversation, would you lose sexual and physical attraction?

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