Please help❤️ boyfriend won’t spend time with me

So my boyfriend of four years and I have lived together for just about two years. We recently moved to another city and I thought that would help us be able to spend more time together. I was so excited to learn the new city with him and discover new things. But it has been a month since we moved and he has done nothing to attempt to spend time with me

Also keep in mind that we had just taken a break (mutually) due to relationship struggles. When we talked, we agreed to come to more compromises, one being that we spend more QUALITY time together and focus on each other’s love languages more.

Everyday is the same as it was at our old home town. I work. He works. Get home. Talks with me for a LITTLE bit. Then goes into the office at about 2pm-6pm and plays games until TWO IN THE MORNING. Video games is his escape so I completely understand but it gets excessive to the point where if I don’t come out, sometimes he won’t come out at all. I’ll have to go in to the room and see if he even wants dinner.

He makes no effort to make dinner for me EVER. And makes no effort to spend time with me. Only time he does is when I make dinner and we watch the together, or when he’s not playing games and we have sex or something.

I have brought it up before and everytime he does he asks me “okay we’ll what do you want to do then??” It’s so difficult because I understand what he means. It’s hard to find things to do in the moment. But at the same time we have so much time on our hands and if he put a little thought into it it’s really not hard at all

I gave him this couples adventure book which has scratch off dates to do and said that this will make it easier for us to find things to do. Keep in mind these are CHEAP dates. He always complains that date night is expensive and that we don’t have the money which is true but all the dates in this book are little to no money. well, the book has even been TOUCHED. I have mentioned it multiple times and he says ya sure but just in a dismissive way. I KNOW he’s not going to take the initiative and all I want is that.

Any tips? Date ideas? Ways to talk to him about this?

It’s PISSING me off. I have tried to be an adult about it and let it go and let him do his own thing but when he does for sometimes 7+ hours without talking to me while I’m in the NEXT ROOM, it gets frustrating.

Thanks ladies, I know that was long❤️