My bf is amazing and i want to say it someone ^^
Being in a healthy relationship after a toxic one is crazy. I just keep getting surprised with how easy everything is, how i'm never really upset, there are no arguments, no yelling, i'm not being called emotional or crazy... Of course, we have disagreements and obstacles but we work through it very quickly without agressivness.
Well, i still have trust issues a bit from past relationship. I saw my boyfriend was still contacting with girl he was close with ig a bit before we started dating. He wasnt hiding it from me, he opens the messages in front of me and I know who it is. I posted here also asking about it. Yesterday as he went to answer her i finally gathered up the courage to say i'm not comfortable with them talking because of everything. First he explained they are just friends and he doesnt contact first and offered me to see all the messages they exchanged and that she knows about me and is also in relationship. I still said i'm not comofortable with it and that im sorry i feel like this. He asked me what would i like him to do. And i said it doesnt feel right to ask him to remove her but im really not fine with it and it stresses me out. You know what this guy did? He said he'll remove her because he understands and he doesnt see other solution and to keep talking with her would be disrespecting my wishes AND that he will order me some food to comfort me "because he knows i like food and girl friend shouldnt be sad when boyfriend is here". And then i cried because i cant believe it all went fine again.
If i would say anything similar to my ex, hed say im paranoid or emotional. I love this guy and he keeps suprising me over and over again.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.