I think I'm FINALLY leaving him

We went from strangers to best friends to dating to a couple and now we're parents.

We're not married since he doesn't want to and I do. But he doesn't want to leave me because I make life "easy" for him in terms of finances and everyday chores.

I hate him now. Everything he does annoys the living hell out of me. We're both MISERABLE with each other. He doesn't takes me seriously most of the time and barely follows through with his word. Ever since we had our son our relationship has drastically changed.

He wants sex, I don't.

He yells at me in front of my son and calls me "woman".

"That's not what I mean, woman."

"You're doing it wrong, woman".

I've asked SEVERAL times to address me by my name. I have a fucking name.

Tonight was the last straw. Our son is sick and he said he was going to take care of bedtime and the night routine (I'm usually the one doing it). He couldn't handle 5 minutes and he yells to come over and hands me off our baby. Then he continues to yell at me while I'm holding our baby saying that what was I waiting for? That he wants me, not him.

The way he yelled me was enough for me to say that I'm finally done.

I'm taking my son with me and he can go fuck himself.