Is your libido…

Sooo I’ve been struggling for a few weeks. I just don’t want to have sex as often. We’ve been having some issues in our relationship. He’s been financially irresponsible and it kinda turned me off ;( We’ve talked about this and he is very self reflective and wants to be better. But I still feel turned off and I don’t know why!

We still have sex like 1-2 times per week. It’s never been more than a week. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that? But he thinks it’s been years. We have children and full time jobs. Realistically I think it’s normal to have sex a couple times a week. He just keeps talking about it and now I’m more turned off because of it.