Toxic spending

Ok so I do not follow a ton of huge influencers but I do fallow several mid to lower range influencers and I cant tell you how many I see discussing shopping/eating out/ coffee purchasing when they either A domt have the money (stated openly) or B their significant other has requested them cut back (stated openly)

Theres absolutely nothing wrong with shopping, eating out, or getting coffee as much as youd like but the problem I have is people on these larger platforms making overspending sound ok or even desirable. If you have the money by all means spend it as you like but do you think some influencers are basically advocating living beyond your means????