32 weeks and feeling the distance
I’m 32 weeks, only about 5 more weeks before our baby girl makes her arrival and I have never felt more distant from everyone. My fiancé is great don’t get me wrong, I appreciate everything he is doing. But I feel so distant from him and I’m scared it’s only going to get worse after baby girl arrives. doesn’t help that I also have been dealing with high blood pressure that has lead to pre eclampsia so we have some extra stress. We also just bought a house, so he’s been busy fixing stuff, putting up a fence, working etc. but lately I feel like he’s not happy, he doesn’t talk to the baby, he doesn’t want to feel the baby move, doesn’t touch me, we don’t even talk about her really.. and it’s like she could come any minute. I feel so scared but also don’t know how to tell him because then I feel like he will be more annoyed and cause a fight and then create more distance.. will everything change when baby girl gets here? Is this distance normal and then when you both finally meet your baby it just all comes together? And then my family, they just don’t get it either I thought they would be more active in my life after finding out and I still go weeks without a call or text. My friends are out on the weekends and just don’t always know what to say when we do talk as they don’t have any kids yet either. Just feeling really lonely the past few weeks and I kept thinking I would get over it but here I am a day before my baby shower still feeling alone. 😞
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