Bf doesn’t want me to ride him…

Hey, I think I’m just venting and maybe looking for advice. This might sound stupid, but… I’ve been sexually active for 8 years now and have a recent new boyfriend (of 3.5 months). I noticed that he only wants to have sex in one or two positions, and never lets me ride him. It feels like our sex is orchestrated and decided by him. One day I expressed frustration because my sex-style is a little bit of back and forth and I like to be dominant or in control sometimes, I also crave the way that position of being on top feels. To me, riding the guy feels like a critical part of having sex and I like to do it at least once every time.

So apparently a girl slammed down on his dick a few years ago and injured him so bad that he didn’t even know if he could have sex again. So he’s scared to let me ride him for fear of that happening again.

I don’t know what to do. Obviously I don’t want to pressure or force him into doing something sexual he’s not comfortable with, but I’m also unsatisfied with our sex life. I don’t know if I’m venting or what… But do you have any advice? Maybe a safe way we could try to do that position or give me tips on how to approach this conversation again with him?

Thank you in advance for kind responses 🤍