Bf doesn’t acknowledge stuff I post and only responds to half the stuff I send him
I know social media is dumb and I know ultimately it doesn’t matter if my bf acknowledges stuff I post.
But it makes me kind of sad that when I post stuff, like pictures of me especially, and my bf doesn’t reply or anything. My friends all do and they like my Instagram stories and stuff. And it just makes me sad bc I get a bunch of notifications from other people, and none of them are him.
I also send him pictures of myself on Snapchat and on text message and he replies like half the time. And when he does, all he says is “you look nice” or “you look good”. And he basically replies the same way in person when I show him stuff. Rarely much enthusiasm.
Am I stupid for wanting more than that? I wish he would be more enthusiastic. I know it’s not fair to compare. But any other guys I’ve ever talked to or dated or been in a relationship with were always super enthusiastic when I sent them stuff or showed them stuff.
I’m not trying to compare but it’s just that I’m thrown off by how he reacts. Not how I’m used to a bf or guy I’m dating to reply to me / lack of reply to me like that.
I talked to him about it yesterday and I told him I don’t want to send him stuff and he’s noticed in the past few weeks I’ve stopped and got sad about being excluded bc he knows I send my friends pictures.
But now I feel like if he does send an enthusiastic response, it’ll be fake and so I don’t want to send him stuff but I promised him I would start to.
We’ve been together 2 months
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