Party like no one died

Today my friends and I was were going to do something for labor day. But sadly, yesterday I was informed of my father's passing. I told me friends in our group chat. They all said sorry, waited a couple of hours before talking about the party this morning. No one asked if I was still coming or how I was feeling. I don't know if I'm being dramatic because of emotions, but if I knew my friend was states away from home and lived alone; I would have texted her separately and asked how she was and if she wanted me to come over. I know the world doesn't stop because of this. I didn't want them to cancel their plans for me either. I don't know...