What’s the most offensive thing someone has said to you as a parent?

Question

From “You’ll regret having a kid one day”, to “You’re a bad parent!” to “Your kid is a brat”. What’s the worst thing someone has said to you as a parent?

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Sadly nothing anyone else has said to me even compares to the things I say to myself. 
I forever feel like I'm falling short as a parent in some manner, or fashion. Plenty of things I wish I could redo, or change. I have to hope through all my flaws, and failures he can show me grace, and know how much I truly love him.

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Do you love all them the same....I don't know how you do it.... You're going to have a nervous breakdown.... Babies can't eat till they have teeth🙄.... He's so big are you sure you're not overfeeding him🙄...get a babysitter so you can have a break...
My list could go on and on....to me the most offensive was you have too many kids get your tubes tied are you ever going to be done repopulating the earth😤 I literally only have 4 kids. Now that I do have my tubes tied I regret it. That's an emotional battle I am fighting within myself. 
Like wtf I love my kids and I love being a mother. I am great at it. I cannot deal with the ignorance.

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I hate being told or asked if I’m going to tie my tubes or get on birth control, because literally nobody helps me with my kids but me and their dad💁🏼‍♀️

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I'm not teaching my kids enough when my one son who's 5 can straight up change oil on a car with help of course and tell me about all the body parts that includes phalanges rib cages and other small parts of the body but he chooses not to show anyone that side of him unless he wants to

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“The reason why your child is so little and isn’t gaining weight properly is because you haven’t done a good job trying to put him on a good schedule”

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"I hope you're not upset about losing the baby, you have no right to be."

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“did you take too much tylenol during pregnancy and that’s why your child is autistic”

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Oh lord. If I kept a record of all the weird and rude things people have said to me.  😂 one time, I was told I’m selfish for only wanting one kid and that my child will grow up to resent me for not providing him a sibling.

What’s the most offensive thing someone has said to you as a parent?

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