Should i lose it?

Question

So this guy i have been knowing for 10 years ( ever since 1st grade) we are still in contact with eachother and we are really good friends and he is very respectful. So anyways  yesterday we were talking and he told me that he had always been interested in me on the DL . And so he wants to hang out ALONE at his house or in his car but i know he might pull something sneaky. Would it be the right thing to lose it to him? Ive known him longer than any guy and i trust him but im scared about all the risks of sex.

Answer

If you aren't ready for sex, you aren't ready, and any decent person would wait until you are or respect your wishes

I do believe however that since you trust him so much and he's been a large part of your life, he'd be a good 'candidate' for your first, this is just my opinion.

You need to be comfortable with it, maybe in the moment you will be, but it's also natural to be nervous because it is a big thing.

Good luck girlie

Answer

I think it would be right even if it's my opinion ! 
Well I lost my V-card to the love of my life we knew each other for 5 years and been together 1 1/2 and it's been great he's the love of my life we dated at 12 and then again@ 15 now we are going on 17 so it's not all that bad 💕

Answer

I think that him revealing a crush is a good reason to try dating, not a good reason to try sex.

On the other hand, if you were already wanting to try sex and looking for a guy friend you can trust, then he might be a good  candidate, but make sure you communicate what you want out of things so no one gets confused and hurt, it could get awkward and be the end of the friendship, or it could be great!

Answer

Go you only get one shot at life but if your not ready pull the period card out say your on and you wasn't expecting sex from him just to hang out

Should i lose it?

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