Who is being more petty?

So months ago person 1 says they don’t want to attend any children’s birthday parties because they weren’t able to have one that year for their own kid. So they didn’t respond to a Facebook invite. So the person throwing the party gets mad a month before the party and starts unfriending them and calling them toxic to our shared family and on Facebook but also not actually naming who they are talking about but we all know who it’s directed at.

1) the children are 2 years old. They do not give a fuck. They do not care now or will they ever care who attends their second birthday.

2) the person throwing the party now did basically the same thing when the other was having the 1st birthday. Kept telling them they weren’t coming but ended up randomly showing up on the day.

3) I also think not having their own party it a dumb reason not to attend someone else’s party. Because that kid doesn’t care either and would probably enjoy the party anyway.