Well I'm not even in relationship yet, it's not official, we've been seeing each other for 8 months, 2 weeks ago he told me he loved me for the first time ever. He only comes to see me for 3 hours a week, he works nights, 5 nights a week, so when he's off he would sleep all day and all night somehow, I have 2 young kids, kids had never met him before, witch is good, after kids dad left us I'm being careful for someone meeting my kids. But I'm ready for him to meet my kids, but don't think he will anytime soon, just the way he works and the love for naps.. The problem is that he can choose his own shifts, but he would never take time off at the same time I'm off, so I always choose to have days off when he is, he never stayed overnight, when I ask him when are you gonna stay over he says I will one day, don't worry, he comes over at 12pm would stay till 3am I can't keep doing that, especially when I have to be up to take my son to school, he just doesn't put me one of his priorities, only one of his friends know me. There are some times where he doesn't sleep during the day and I ask him if he wants to go out and do something, he would say he's busy and come over during the night just, so we have never been out of my house, EVER, never been on a date.. He always finds excuses, like he's not feeling well so he's going for a nap or, he has sore ear so he's going to take a nap and it's like that every time. But he does carr about me... He brings me and the kids stuff, when I went to see my family for a week back to Lithuania, he hide a good bit of money, cause he knew I was struggling a bit, he knew I was alone and stuff. But almost those presents for me and the kids it's not good enough, I need his time.. We had a lot of fights about it, but somehow he would reassure me that everything's gonna be alright and I believed it everytime... I just wanna those cute dates... I want to feel loved... I want a second chance to have a permanent family... What would you do?