Hello everyone. I think I need to get this out and maybe get some advice or encouragement. My husband wants a divorce. It seems there's no changing his mind and he already leapt into action looking for his own place and talking about splitting our money and items up. We have been together almost 10 years, married for several. We are late 20s with no kids. I feel so hurt and lost and honestly kind of angry. I feel like I'm losing my best friend, the house and everything we built together, and the future I thought we were going to have. I also feel like I lost my entire 20s. I feel like I'm starting over my adult years at point zero, no house, no family. We just spent over a year trying to conceive a baby. Now I feel like I'll never even get that chance. I'm certainly not ready to date someone new and I feel like by the time I am ready, by the time I then maybe find the right one, and then by the time I'd be ready to start a family with that one, I'll be too old to conceive especially since I've already had struggles and was just about to start fertility appointments with my husband. Im so hurt that he has just given up and also over everything I am losing. It might be wrong, but at this time I honestly wish we had been successful conceiving when we tried because maybe things would be different and even if we did still get divorced I'd at least have the baby I want so desperately and we'd also have something still tying us and his side of the family together. We are trying to be civil about it and do the divorce without attorneys since there arent children involved, we are hoping to just agree on how to split everything up and file the paperwork. He has leapt into action to get out the door and I'm just super overwhelmed about all of it right now. I know I'll be "ok" but I feel like I'll never be as happy as I was a few weeks ago or as happy as I would have been if we stayed in the house we worked so hard for and started our family in it as planned. We have been together since shortly after graduating high school til now in our late 20s, so I really do not know adult life without him.