I don’t know what is going on anymore. My SO barely talks to me now because he’s upset so often and gets quiet. It’s my birthday today and we had one good hour… he didn’t eat at the birthday dinner to “take care of baby so I can enjoy my food.” Everyone thought it was strange but as long as I was happy. I feel uncomfortable speaking with him now because I don’t know what’s going on half the time. He’s okay when he wants to be but it seems like anything will bring him to that quiet isolated state. Even the baby not complying for a diaper change! He just shuts down. I try to talk to him and it apparently makes it worse and now I’m getting frustrated and short tempered. I’m started to feel more and more depressed but I’m always told to not shut down. Idk anymore. I just wanted a happy birthday better than last year… baby fell asleep on the ride home and he went straight to sleep with him without one word to me.