Been with my guy for a while but this is the last straw for Me. He's 40 and has no car. He would always say his mom is at a Dr's appt we can have the house to ourselves and post suggestive emojis.

I could never bring myself to do it bc it's so fkn lame. His mom doesn't let me in bc she's just really bitter and sees me as taking her "help"(son) away. So his daughter was never allowed in thr house. Only on few occasions.

I'm definitely breaking up. He just keeps clinging to me for dear life and won't leave me alone.

But yeah. How lame is it?

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* @D- No his mom doesn't guilt him. He's just really lame. He pays his mom 400 a month ( he provides for his mother but not his daughter)with inflation being high I guess he's comfortable where he's at. He can work hard but he's been quitting jobs. He can drive but he has no car the one he got kept stopping on him. He kept wasting money on it. I told him to get rid of it but it wasn't until his friend told him that he actually did it.

@Lulupie- No bc I've told him plenty of times I didn't want to be with him but he won't leave me alone. Keeps threatening to off himself. One step away from calling the cops

@G.G- I think you're right. I have a car atleast and I'm working on a place but I don't want to take his sorry ass with me and I made that clear. I don't think he's ever had a place of his own. He's always moved in with a gf he told me. And wow what a story. Sorry u went through that. You're right I'm not a rehabilitation center

@Belle- idk I think she's just extremely bitter asf. Either way it looks bad on him. Sometimes you have to put your foot down but at the same time that's her place. I would've been told mom what it was. I think she has no respect for him. Bc he said she helped his other siblings with their kids.

@Melissa- He does drive though. I don't think not being able to drive is an issue. I met a coworker who taxi everywhere and made it work, she has a house and everything. But this man is very capable he just doesn't do what he should as a father or a man.

@Lisa- he kept begging. And no it learned over time bc he lied. If I knew from the Start how lame he was I wouldn't have pursued him any further. He worked hard. Harder than I did. He did OT regularly. So it happened over time. Please go be a bitch somewhere else.