How do I cope with the stress and crying?

Question

I have 2 toddlers, ( 1 autism the other neurotypical) I love them but like most kids they're really demanding. They cry in unison, I have to deal with being overly touched,poked,bitten and pulled on and  I have toxic family that berates me, I'm trying to get them in daycare by January without losing my mind. 
I have no help. Daycare is my only form of help and even then I worry about neglect qnd what not. I really feel like I'm going to go batshit crazy. 
Tips please. 
I feel like if I cry or show weakness I'll lose it. Plus my family tells no one is gonna feel sorry for me so it's not a safe space to cry.

Answer

It’s ok to cry! I’ve cried sometimes when my son was younger. I highly suggest you cut that contact with your toxic family. It just needs to be cut and disconnected. It isn’t worth your peace! 
It’s normal for crying to be a domino effect. Somedays I am out touched and my anxiety is high because of my child’s tantrums and meltdowns. He’s 6 and still has big emotions. 
He attended a daycare academy (secular) and thrived. They had live stream cameras everywhere and I could hear and see him whenever I wanted to. I received updates at work throughout the day. Not all daycares are bad. He still attends it sometimes and during the summer occasionally. 
Breathing techniques and color grounding might help you. Online parenting classes might help you deal with the screaming and meltdowns in a different way. Have you looked into potential therapies for your autistic child? Maybe your pediatrician/family doctor could help you on that path.

Answer

Cry it out babe

How do I cope with the stress and crying?

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