Unplanned Pregnancy

Okay I’m coming to this community not for judgement but for advice please !

I just found out I’m pregnant and I don’t know how to feel about it . I’ve always told myself I want to have a kid later on down the road I’m 22* although I’ve been on my own for a while I just didn’t want a child young. I use to say if I’m not ready for a child then I would make the decision to not . But the more I’m realizing this is real the more I think I can do this . But I’m scared at the same time because I’ve always thought negatively about pregnancy just the whole process. I’ve seen it go bad a lot of times with my friends and family. I guess what I want to know is there any mothers who didn’t want to have a kid at first but you did and how do you feel now ? And if y’all could tell me some positive things that would be great.