Can you continue being with your partner even if you are resentful about past issues?

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I will most likely go in depth in my next post but generally, can there be a relationship with current resentment based on past issues?

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I’ve never gone through that but personally I think if you are both willing and dedicated to work through it through counseling, you can make it work.

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I've gone through resentment with my now husband. We did individual therapy and couples counseling to help us navigate it and heal through it together. Whenever it comes up now, it's all in past tense. It's taken years of work from both of us but we're both invested in our relationship

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I think it gets to a point where the good days don’t out weigh the bad then it’s the point of no return and the resentment just gets worse

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I think it depends what caused the resentment. I think in some cases holding on to resentment is a choice, in other cases resentment is caused by lack of truly understanding a situation and/or miscommunication. I think in some cases counseling can help solve this if you chose to let go of the resentment.

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I personally could not be with someone I resent.

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depends on what it is exactly that you’re resenting. if it’s something that you can get over, then maybe but it’ll be hard but if it’s something you’ll continue to resent, no.

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not really cause if u can’t get over it then it’s just gonna make the issues worse n if this issue is cheating then no, i wouldn’t continue the relationship

Can you continue being with your partner even if you are resentful about past issues?

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